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Mar 2020
43m 46s

vali-dating: dating for validation

SEPHY AND WING
About this episode

dating for validation? it couldn’t be us. in this fun episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) break down our 10 vali-dating commandments from our new ebook and explore how we can all date with intention. we’re entering romantic relationships with strategy and following fun not fear. discussing dating apps, ghosting, heartbreak, and sex, we’re here to explore how romance can be easy.

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