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Jul 2024
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The 3 BIGGEST Relationship Mistakes You’...

Lewis Howes
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In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis delves into the complexities of creating authentic relationships with three renowned relationship experts: Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop. Esther Perel shares her insights on desire in long-term relationships and the changing dynamics of modern dating. She emphasizes the importance of shared values and the challenge of maintaining desire over time. Michael Bungay Stanier offers practical advice on becoming a better conversationalist, highlighting the power of curiosity and asking good questions to foster meaningful connections. Gary John Bishop discusses how to maintain individuality within relationships and the importance of personal responsibility in achieving a fulfilling partnership. Together, these experts provide a comprehensive guide to understanding and improving relationships by focusing on authenticity, communication, and self-awareness.

In this episode you will learn

  • The biggest obstacles people face in relationships.
  • The power of asking good questions to build rapport.
  • Why even happy people sometimes cheat.
  • How to maintain individuality within a relationship.
  • The key to sustaining desire and romance in long-term relationships.

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