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Jul 2024
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Two FBI Negotiation Tactics That Will In...

Donald C. Kelly
About this episode

Have you ever wondered how FBI agents can get suspects to tell them everything within seconds? Those tactics they’re using can be surprisingly practical in your sales game. 

In this episode, I invite two exceptional guests, Adele Gambardella, and Chip Massey, to share their unique hybrid of sales wisdom drawn from their expansive backgrounds. Listen to discover forensic listening and effective convincing techniques to boost your sales success.

Guest Introductions

  • Adele Gambardella
    • With over 15 years of experience running her own agency, Adele shares the journey of transitioning from cold calls with limited success to securing significant clients through strategic media coverage offerings.
    • Adele expertly discusses how her PR and journalism background seamlessly blended into her sales tactics, making her exceptionally skilled in selling concepts and narratives.
  • Chip Massey
    • Chip details his fascinating transition from FBI special agent and hostage negotiator to business consultancy, where he met Adele. The collaboration between Chip’s high-stakes negotiation skills and Adele’s PR expertise forms the foundation for their innovative sales training firm.
    • His profound understanding of human behavior and negotiation lends invaluable insights into the sales process.

Forensic Listening

  • Definition: Forensic Listening is the art and science of analyzing conversations to understand clients' unspoken narratives and emotions.
  • Four Key Components
    • Emotion: Identifying and tracking the present emotions during the conversation.
    • Theme Development: Recognizing recurring themes that indicate what the client values the most.
    •  Voice: Observing pitch, tone, and cadence to determine excitement or disinterest.
    • Body Positioning: Differentiating between body language and positioning to gauge the client's engagement level.

Methods to Improve Forensic Listening

  • Recording and Reviewing Meetings: Utilize tools like Otter AI to capture the conversation, allowing for a thorough post-call analysis.
  • Targeted Validation: Following up with insights gained during conversations to show genuine interest and appreciation for the client’s input.

Essentials of Convincing

  • Chip & Adele share the importance of convincing and how sellers can improve.
  • Convincing Continuum
    • Point of Agreement: Starting with a mutual agreement to lower initial defenses.
    • Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt (FUD): Addressing these components comprehensively to alleviate client concerns.
    • Cliffhangers: Leaving clients with intriguing, open-ended statements or questions that encourage further engagement and follow-up.
    • Personal Convincing Styles: Identify whether you and your client are emotional or fact-based convincers and adjust your approach accordingly.

"You're listening for a deeper understanding of who you're talking to. And you get that by understanding what their emotions are. What are they passionate about? Where do they have energy?" — Adele Gambardella.

Forensic listening is the art and science of analyzing a conversation after it's happened. Because what we say is words leave clues." — Chip Massey

Resources

Book: “Convince Me" 

Training So Good, It's Criminal

Sponsorship Offers

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