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Jul 2024
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Kinky John, Dealing with Anger, and Gold...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
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Today, Shaun and John touch on their kinks, seeking therapy, experiences growing up, and “parts work.” They also bring on their first two live callers and answer their questions. The first caller asks how to set boundaries and distance yourself from unhealthy people. The second caller seeks their guidance on coping with anger towards systemic injustices and daily dilemmas. 


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