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Jul 2024
36m 41s

"You Don't Spend Enough Time With Me!!"

Nurtured First
About this episode
In this episode, Jess and Scott discuss a recent incident in which their child told them that she doesn't feel like they spend enough time with her. Jess unpacks her feelings of guilt around being a working mom, and Scott helps her understand the deeper reasons behind this guilt. They explore the struggles of dividing time and attention between sick kids an ... Show More
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