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Jul 2024
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Age Gaps, Big D*ck Energy, and Short Sho...

Shaun Galanos and John Kim
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Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is.


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