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Jul 2024
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2231: What Love is Not: A Proven Method ...

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino
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Episode 2231:

Dr. Lisa Firestone explores the concept of love by highlighting what love is not, providing practical insights to help couples avoid common relationship pitfalls. By understanding that love is not selfish, manipulative, or a means to deny aloneness, individuals can foster healthier, more fulfilling romantic connections.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/what-love-is-not-a-proven-method-to-make-love-last/

Quotes to ponder:

"Love is not selfish, demanding, or a proprietary right over the other."

"Love is never submission or dominance, emotional coercion or manipulation."

"Love is not the desperate attempt to deny aloneness or a desire for fused identity."

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