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Jul 2024
44m 55s

When the betrayal was revealed after the...

Pionaire Podcasting
About this episode

If your friends are telling you to hire a PI to look into your husband, chances are he's doing something shady. So why did this marriage officially end over a disagreement over having kids and not...something else? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for Genesis Women's Shelter in Dallas: https://www.genesisshelter.org/

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:26): How they met

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(11:12): The first signs something was wrong

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(15:13): Why she asked for a divorce

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(17:01): What she found out when looking for closure

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(26:24): Their secret engagement

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(24:24): Reflecting with the hindsight she has now

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(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship

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(37:05): Advice

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(47:40): Teaser



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