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Jun 2024
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Alisa & The Cult of Mother | Domestic Vi...

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Alisa about her abusive narcissistic mother, the head of their two-person cult. Alisa was the reliable crutch that her mother could always use and abuse when she wasn't paying more attention to the sea of boyfriends that came through their home. Alisa shares the myriad of abuses from childhood to adulthood as the abuse continued throughout Alisa's life due to her operating on fear, obligation, and guilt.

It's a story of cptsd, physical abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, fear, obligation, guilt, manipulation, gaslighting, isolation, healing, neglect, parentification, rage, mental health, breakdowns, suicide, entitlement, and selfishness.

*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual abuse, and suicide. ***

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