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Jun 2024
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"Casual Sex Is Almost Always Dangerous F...

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About this episode

Has feminism failed women? Louise Perry uncovers the truth about sexual liberation.


Louise Perry is a British journalist and host of the ‘Maiden Mother Matriarch’ podcast. She is also press officer for the charity, ‘We Can’t Consent To This’ and author of the book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’. 

In this conversation, Louise and Steven discuss topics such as, the dangers of casual sex for women, why you should trust your ‘icks’, how dating apps are making men lonely, and the truth about sex on a first date.


You can purchase Louise’s book, ‘The Case Against The Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century’, here: https://amzn.to/3z60wqy 


(0:00) Intro

(01:42) What are you trying to achieve??

(03:45) What does society disagree with you on?

(04:21) The trade-offs of the contraceptive pill

(05:30) How has sexual culture changed?

(06:59) Working in a rape crisis centre

(09:49) How to channel men's aggression in the right direction

(11:59) The physical differences between men and women

(13:28) How men and women differ in their view on sexuality

(14:58) Why men are more likely to have casual sex

(17:59) How does a culture of casual sex impact women

(23:31) Repercussions of casual sex in society

(28:54) The lack of communication and education is hurting both genders

(31:18) Why women have icks towards men

(33:30) Women should listen to their icks

(38:10) Women's 6th sense

(41:02) There are some jobs women shouldn't do due to biology

(46:44) Heroic masculinity

(48:22) Social media affecting our view on relationships & dating

(50:54) Wait until engagement to have sex

(56:11) The dating crisis

(01:00:41) Why you should have sex before marriage

(01:03:29) Why is marriage good

(01:07:33) How likely you're to get divorced

(01:11:02) Step-parents vs biological parents

(01:14:47) Why are you saying these unpopular opinions

(01:19:50) The decline in birth rates

(01:25:16) What porn is doing to your brain

(01:30:16) Is reproduction at the heart of male motivation?

(01:31:03) Unwanted choking during sex

(01:33:24) Should we ban porn?

(01:40:36) What are we attracted to?

(01:44:50) Better looking people bias

(01:48:05) The last guest's question


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