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Jun 2024
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Episode 302: The Psychology Behind Attra...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
About this episode

From the vampires and werewolves in Twilight to Bigfoot to the beast from Beauty and the Beast, it turns out that a lot of people are turned on by the idea of getting it on with a monster. But why is that? Where do these attractions come from in the first place? In this episode, we’re going to explore the rich psychology that helps to explain why monstrous, mythical, and scary creatures can sometimes become turn-ons.

I am joined once again by Ella Gallego, a researcher, writer, and the founder of the Monstrous Desire Study. The study examines the cultural history of erotic monsters around the globe based on research data from over 2,200 respondents. Ella was my guest in the previous episode, in which we explored people’s biggest monster crushes.

Some of the topics we cover in this episode include:

  • What physical or other attributes of monsters do people find arousing?
  • To what extent do monster fantasies overlap with interest in kink and BDSM?
  • What is the role of fear in sexual arousal?
  • Why do monster fantasies seem to be particularly appealing to women and LGBTQ+ folks?
  • How important is it for us to understand where our sexual fantasies come from?

You can check out Ella’s website to learn more about her work.

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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