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Jun 2024
53m 54s

John Daniel on Optimism, Grit, Love, Los...

Bill Burke
About this episode

John Daniel has led a remarkable and inspiring life, marked by challenges that he’s met with grit and resilience.  John’s alcoholic father struggled to find work but his loving mom made sure her nine children always had the support they needed.  John emerged from his childhood to become a successful banking executive with a successful marriage and thriving children.  But following his own diagnosis of a serious heart ailment, his wife developed cancer and passed away.  A few short years later, John faced a major heart procedure and ultimately, a full transplant.  With the support of his second wife, Leslie, John persevered, got back on his feet, and resumed his career.  Now retired from banking, John and Leslie have co-founded Bluff City Pickleball, a community center in their hometown of Memphis, Tennessee designed to bring people together from all walks of life and economic backgrounds.   

 

Chapters:

02:09 Childhood Challenges and Resilience 
John describes his challenging childhood in a working-class neighborhood with nine siblings and a father battling alcoholism and says these early experiences shaped his grit and resilience, setting the foundation for his future successes. 

06:52 “Advantages of Disadvantages” 
Explore the concept of finding advantages in disadvantages as discussed by John Daniel and Malcolm Gladwell. Understand how facing challenges and adversity can lead to personal growth and strength, as highlighted in John’s own experiences. 

13:40 Personal Loss and Resilience 
John describes his personal journey of love, loss, and resilience, from his marriage to his wife’s battle with cancer and eventual passing.  

16:00 Health Challenges and Heart Transplant 
Discussion of John’s health challenges, including his heart ailment and the eventual need for a heart transplant.  

23:35 Transplant Procedure and Recovery 
John describes his journey through the heart transplant procedure and the challenging recovery process.  

26:37 Recovery from LVAD Surgery 
John discusses the challenging recovery process after his LVAD surgery, including infections, transfusions, and the support he received from his wife during a low point. 

29:26 Setting Goals for Recovery 
John shares how setting a vision of returning to work and accomplishing a 50-mile bike ride post-transplant helped him stay motivated and focused during his recovery. 

34:31 Founding Bluff City Pickleball 
John shares the inspiration behind starting Bluff City Pickleball, a community center aimed at fostering social connections and physical activity, emphasizing inclusivity and social impact. 

42:15 Ancestral Minds Book 
John discusses his upcoming book ‘Ancestral Minds,’ focusing on human nature and evolutionary psychology, offering insights for effective leadership based on understanding innate behaviors. 

49:44 Words of Encouragement 
John offers words of encouragement for those facing tough times, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and optimistic individuals to maintain hope and resilience. 

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