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Jun 2024
23m 27s

Connecting Over Correcting

MARK GREGSTON
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Correction may change behavior temporarily, but it's the connection you have with your teen that changes their heart in the long run. In today's show, Mark talks about the importance of focusing on connecting with your teenagers rather than constantly correcting them. Mark shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how parents can prioritize building a deeper relationship with their teens by understanding their love languages, defending them when needed and inviting them into meaningful experiences. Tune in now!

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