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Jun 2024
55m 26s

237: My Husband Doesn't Speak My Love La...

Laura Doyle
About this episode

It's depressing when you long to hear your man tell you how beautiful you are and how crazy he is about you and he just…doesn't. It's frustrating if you just want him to fix the screen door, move the patio furniture or put the crib in the attic and he just…won't. Or if you really love snuggling and want to feel physically desired but that's not happening, it hurts! So what can you do if he's just not the type of guy to give you that, and never has been? Tigers don't change their stripes, right? Or do they? On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I'm talking about what to do when your husband doesn't speak your love language—and two ways to change that.

Plus, my guest Kristi was heartbroken after her husband's infidelity and him telling her he didn't love her anymore. Her marriage felt dead! But today they have a deeper connection than ever, and he is always doing things to make her happy. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.

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Here's what you'll get:

  • 6 SIMPLE steps to bring back playfulness, passion, and connection to your marriage.

  • The 3 COMMON mistakes wives make when trying to fix things (and how to avoid them!).

  • A clear, actionable plan to create the joyful, loving marriage you deserve.

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