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Jun 2024
20m 14s

How to Coach Beliefs: The Drama Triangle...

ELENA AGUILAR
About this episode

Limiting beliefs often accompany frustration. In this episode, Elena provides a framework and tool to help you identify when the person you are coaching has slipped into victim consciousness and what is needed to support them in transitioning out. 

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Reflection questions:

  • Think about a time when you experienced frustration and…
    • Fell into a victim stance?
    • Fell into a villain stance?
    • Fell into a hero stance? 
  • For each of those experiences, what would have been different if you had been able to access curiosity? 

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