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May 2024
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Securely Speaking: Attachment Nerd Eli H...

Sarah Edmondson & Anthony “Nippy” Ames
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This episode is sponsored by Better Help. Eli Harwood we can’t quite quit you just yet, but we feel very secure about it. The ever-quotable and mega-helpful licensed therapist, author, and educator is back again for another episode, and breaking down what attachment patterns can mean for cult survivors and seekers, parents and children, lovers and fighters, ... Show More
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