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May 2024
18m 14s

Sexual Shadow Work Is the Only Shadow Wo...

Kim Anami
About this episode

“Shadow work” is a hot topic these days. 


The reason why I say that sexual shadow work is THE most powerful shadow work—and I’d assert the only shadow work anyone really needs—is because there is SO MUCH taboo, repression, misinformation about all things sexual.


And it runs SO deep.


Whether it’s outright physical violation, genital mutilation or absorbing all of the negative beliefs projected upon us, everyone has some level of sexual trauma.


Since our sexual energy is the core of who we are, when that gets suppressed, EVERYTHING In our life gets suppressed.


If you go deep here, it’s the panacea for all.


The pounds come off, dream careers materialize, and lives change.


All through Anami-style, f**k-your-demons-away sex. 


In this episode:


- Why sexual shadow work is THE only shadow work you need

- Orgasms as the most powerful nervous system reset

- Reap the benefits of so much taboo

- Cervical orgasms and the vagus nerve

- My own adventures in conscious BDSM


In ALL of my salons, I show people how to do your sexual shadow work to illuminate your blind spots—and your dark spots—and alchemize them into power.


Next up on the Anami Roster is my How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon. 


In this 10-week online salon we explore: 

  • How to clear your sexual blocks 
  • Quantum techniques for sexual shadow work 
  • Conscious BDSM practices to illuminate your “dark sides” and explore the power of surrender
  • How to have the deeper female orgasms—the deepest ANS and vagus nerve resets there are
  • Using Taoist and Tantric sexual energy practices to harness your pro-creative power 
  • Tapping into your feminine power to achieve more by learning the art of surrender 
     

The WFW salon opens for registration in June. Get on our mailing list to be notified when and take the “Are you underf**ked?” quiz. 


You’ll also receive access to the WFW free video preview series with multi-orgasmic techniques you can practice tonight. 


https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/


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