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May 2024
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372: How Men Can Make Women Feel Safe, P...

Monica Yates
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How Men Can Protect and Provide for Her (Hint: It Actually Has Nothing To Do With Money)


Ladies AND gentlemen, this is a super important conversation that can take your communication and your relationship to another dimension - both inside the bedroom AND outside the bedroom!! 🥵 


Here’s what Monica’s covering in this one:

🌶️ why a woman has to be in her feminine to actually feel safe with her man

🌶️ how it takes TWO to tango when it comes to feeling safe in your relationship

🌶️ how to not have the woman making more money lead to resentment

🌶️ all the ways a man can make her feel safe that has nothing to do with money

🌶️ why Monica “gets in trouble” for staying up too late (and why it’s actually super hot)

🌶️ how women are biologically wired to need CALM communication

🌶️ the ways this dynamic is heightened when she’s pregnant

🌶️ the difference between men and women’s brains

🌶️ the importance of being able to read each other’s body language

🌶️ why chivalry is NOT dead and the vital role it plays in your relationship 

🌶️ nugget: why saying NO is an aphrodisiac 

🌶️ knowing when to prioritize your needs vs your partner’s needs


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As Mentioned In The Episode — 

⇢ FREE How To Have Him Lead You Masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass

⇢ A Guy’s Guide To Periods Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck/id1449633522?i=1000626947478 

⇢ Dude’s Guide To Period Phases FREE EBOOK: https://monicayateshealth.com/collections/shop-all/products/dudes-guide-to-period-phases 

⇢ The Man: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-man 

⇢ Podcast Directory (go to FOR MEN section): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory 

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth 

⇢ Email with any Q’s: support@monicayateshealth.com 

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