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May 2024
38m 19s

371: How Much Sex Should You *Actually* ...

Monica Yates
About this episode

Monica’s hot take on… Aging. Botox. The beauty industry. *PLUS* Sex. Getting your needs met. Long-term relationships. If you’ve ever wondered HOW to know whether you’re truly unsatisfied in your relationship, OR if you’re actually just in a season that’s a bit less sexy & spicy than you’re used to (or compared to what you’re seeing online)… this episode is going to give you exactly what you need to get clear about where you are and what you need, and HOW to get it. 🔥


A quick peek at what Monica’s covering in this one…

🍓 the BTS of Monica’s relationship while she’s in a SPRINT season before the wedding

🍓 how to tell if a belief is even yours OR if you’ve gotten it from someone else

🍓 the way that women are perpetuating our issues with the beauty industry

🍓 her honest thoughts on aging and her opinion on BOTOX

🍓 the scary consequence of filters for us and for our children

🍓 comparing your relationship to others online

🍓 the ups and downs when you’re in a long-term relationship

🍓 how to know if you’re *actually* unsatisfied in your relationship

🍓 why reels are not REAL and long-form content is the GOAT

🍓 ways to spice up your sex life & tips for better sex when the initial high wears off

🍓 getting clear about what would create YOUR dream relationship

🍓 how to open up the dialogue around both of your needs being met



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As Mentioned In The Episode — 

⇢ FREE How To Have Him Lead You Masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass 

⇢ Last Week’s Podcast Episode (with a bit of life updates): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck/id1449633522?i=1000654921868 

⇢ The Reality of Real Relationships Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/333-the-reality-of-real-relationships-not-just-what/id1449633522?i=1000630953172 

⇢ The Dark Side of Personal Development Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck/id1449633522?i=1000652728472 

⇢ Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory 

⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother 

⇢ EOD Masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-embodiment-of-dating 

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth 

⇢ Email with any Q’s: support@monicayateshealth.com 

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