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May 2024
1h 24m

How to Know They’ll Cheat on You - Cheat...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

Today, Lewis sits down with best-selling author Neil Strauss to explore the complex world of relationships, infidelity, and personal growth. Strauss opens up about his own journey from infidelity to intimacy rehab, sharing powerful lessons on rebuilding trust and nurturing secure connections. He delves into the psychology behind cheating and the signs that can indicate whether a partner might be unfaithful. Strauss provides a candid look into his most secure and insecure moments in adulthood, discusses the challenges of monogamy, and reveals the keys to a healthy relationship. Drawing from his experience interviewing extreme personalities, he sheds light on persuasion, manipulation, and how to identify red flags in potential partners. 

After today’s episode, be sure to check out Neil’s new podcast, To Die For!

In this episode you will learn

  • How to identify red flags that suggest a partner might be unfaithful.
  • The essential principles for fostering trust and intimacy.
  • Why commitment can be challenging and strategies for overcoming fears.
  • Insights from Neil Strauss’s journey through intimacy rehab.
  • How to spot manipulation and protect yourself in relationships.

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