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Apr 2024
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3149: Stop Crowding Out Your Happiness b...

Justin Malik
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Episode 3149:

In "Stop Crowding Out Your Happiness," Sarah Von Bargen of YesAndYes.org sheds light on the paradox of self-sabotage where we unintentionally dilute our joyful moments with overbooked schedules and incessant mental clutter. Through relatable anecdotes and actionable advice, she urges readers to safeguard their slices of joy and immerse fully in life's happy moments, offering a guide to living more mindfully and contentedly.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.yesandyes.org/2017/05/crowding-out-happiness.html

Quotes to ponder:

"Much of our lives consist of boring, responsible, logistical things. The shining moments of joy – a great conversation, a long-awaited holiday, amazing food – are the minority."

"In the pie chart of our lives, joy is a pretty small slice."

"Give your happiness some space to breathe, dude."

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