episode-header-image

Apr 2024

35m 28s

Episode 78: Why you've lost interest...e...

About this episode

Up next

The Selfish Sex Revolution with Susan Bratton

What if the same conditioning that teaches women to abandon themselves in life is also showing up in the bedroom? In this fascinating and often hilarious conversation, Valerie sits down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton to explore what happens when women reclaim their desire, th ... Show More

How To End A Marriage Without Going To War: With Kate Daly of amicable

Nobody teaches women how to leave. You get handed a lawyer's number, a horror story from a friend, and the quiet impication that if your marriage ended...somethig must have gone wrong. But what if divorce didn't have to become a bloodbath to be real? In this episode, Valerie sits ... Show More

'Reinvention' is Bullshit: Episode 134

The Confession Booth is open! I'm calling BS on the 'reinvention trend'....one that I was fully participating in for the last few years. Nobody reinvents themselves on purpose. Not the way the industry sells it. Real change doesn't start with a plan, it starts with one thought th ... Show More

Recommended Episodes

#247 - Lets Talk About Sex with Eleanor Hadley

<p>Let’s talk about SEX!</p><p>If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.</p><p>If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and wa ... Show More

Episode 336: Not Having Sex Is The Latest Sex Trend

<p>A growing number of people seem to be hitting the pause button on their sex lives, which is why terms like “volcel” (short for voluntary celibacy) and “boysober” are trending on social media. So what’s this all about? Why is not having sex the hot new sex trend? Let’s talk abo ... Show More

Get Him Back Using This Method

<p><strong>Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day</strong>—Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of <u>WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS</u>!!! whether beginning, middle, or end--it seems to always happen at some point. </p><p><br>< ... Show More

#1: The Importance of Communication in your Relationship and Masculine v Feminine Energy with Scot McKay

Welcome to the very first episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast. In this episode, I interview Scot McKay from X&Y Communications and the Mountain Top Podcast. We talk about a range of issues to keep your relationship and sex life red hot and satisfying. Show Highlights 3.45 Avo ... Show More

195 SelfWork: The Suck It Up Episode: Why You Struggle to Feel

Today's topic was weirdly and almost synergistically created. As I was researching emotional expression, two quite different sources led me to the work of Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett. I'll share her and Dr. Tim Lomas' work with you today, as we discover an entirely new way of thinki ... Show More

Episode 335: How To Have Good Sex

<p>If you had to define “good sex” in just three words, what would they be? In today’s show, we’re going to talk about the key things that come to mind when people are asked this question. There are 20 common responses to this, which constitute the main ingredients of ... Show More

Episode 410: Is Porn Use A Problem In Your Relationship?

<p>One in five couples report that porn has become a problem in their relationship. So why is porn such a common source of conflict, and what can we do about it? In today’s show, we’re going to explore how many people in relationships use porn, what fights about porn are really a ... Show More

S7 Ep5: Why are young people having less sex?

Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since the 2000s, outline the context surrounding the world at the moment and attempt to answer why this, as a recent study claims, means ... Show More

Episode 326: Sex Tips For Women

<p>Female sexual pleasure is a topic that is not often covered in traditional sex education. In fact, it’s extraordinarily rare for the word “clitoris” to even be mentioned in sex ed! The unfortunate result is that many women (and their partners) never learn the information they ... Show More

399: "Help! I'm Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore."``

Oof listeners, this is some hard content that we are discussing today! Loss of attraction is often shared as the reason for the ending of a relationship. Maybe partners never felt deeply attracted to one another, or attraction waned over the years. Regardless of the reason, this ... Show More