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Apr 2024
35m 28s

Episode 78: Why you've lost interest...e...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

Who knew that a three minute video could create such a heated debate between the sexes....about sex! 

My TikTok video that went viral a couple of weeks ago has resonated with women and angered men. 

Why? What is it about women being honest about the reasons they've lost interest in sex that is so polarizing? 

Join me for a deep dive! 

  • Busting some of the common myths about sex in relationships 
  • Survey says! What women are saying about it! 
  • What your lack of interest in the bedroom is showing you about what's happening outside the bedroom 
  • The one significant contributing factor to your lack of interest 
  • What to do about it! 

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