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Apr 2024
58m 34s

Why Your Self Worth is Keeping You Stuck...

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About this episode

How does low self-worth stop you from moving forward?

How can you stop self-sabotage and grow personally?

Today, let’s welcome Jamie Kern Lima. Jamie is a New York Times bestselling author, founder of IT Cosmetics, a company she started in her living room and sold to L'Oreal in a billion-dollar deal, becoming the first female CEO of a brand in its 100+ year history. She's also an active philanthropist who has funded leadership training in more than 100 prisons and shelters across the US, and has donated over $40 million in product and funds to help women face the effects of cancer with confidence. 

Jamie and Jay ponder on the meaning of self-worth, distinguishing it from mere confidence and challenging the misguided belief that our value is tied to our physical appearance. We get to hear the detrimental effects of self-doubt and present empowering strategies to transform your relationship with rejection, offering a new perspective that fosters resilience and self-compassion. 

And then the conversation dives deep into personal beliefs, urging us to identify and discard unhelpful misconceptions, while giving emphasis on why authenticity is crucial and its role in conjunction with other factors in achieving success. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to build self-worth

How to distinguish confidence from self-worth

How to handle rejection

How to overcome self-doubt

How to remain authentic

Together, let's learn how to distinguish your worth from external validation, turn rejection into a stepping stone, and live authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:17 Do You Feel Worthy Today?

10:04 Confusing Confidence with Self Worth

17:37 Your Weight Impacts Your Worth is a Lie 

24:03 What Has Self Doubt Cost You?

31:25 How to Change Your Relationship with Rejection

37:02 The 4-Part R to Reframe Rejection

44:00 You Need This Today

48:13 Which Lie Are You Trying to Unlearn? 

56:32 Authenticity Alone Doesn’t Guarantee Success

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Worthy: How to Believe You Are Enough and Transform Your Life 

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