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Apr 2024
37m 19s

Come to the Table

Katie Blackburn, Ashlee Gadd
About this episode

Does getting your entire family around the table feel impossible at times? Between long commutes and conflicting sports schedules, nursing babies and pure exhaustion, there are plenty of reasons why we struggle to get around the table—even though we know it matters. According to Katie's stellar research and our own at-home attempts, eating together can foster connection, protect mental health, reduce stress, and make room for intentional conversations. This episode is certainly not a how-to on proper meals and table manners (if you only knew!), but rather a new-ish practice in our homes we hope you can pull up a seat for. Remember, it doesn't matter what shade of beige you're feeding your family—quesadillas and Dino Nuggets count—as long as you're serving it with a side of grace.

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