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Mar 2024
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High Performance Psychologist: The Secre...

Ali Abdaal
About this episode

We’ve all experienced moments when we want to express vulnerability, but our mind holds us back. I often find myself in this situation, and in this candid conversation with Dr. Aria, I delve into my inner thoughts on the matter. Dr Aria is a high-performance psychologist and mindfulness specialist who developed a science-based method called Focused Insight Training to help people stay mentally and physically fit for life. Enjoy! 

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(00:00) Intro
(03:35) The struggle with being vulnerable
(22:40) Intuition vs rationalisation
(26:20) Intuition evolves into change
(31:25) Fear as a core value
(35:30) When reality clashes with expectation
(42:30) Pleasure vs joy
(52:45) The mind thinks, the heart knows
(56:20) How to know your truth
(59:33) Sharing in the face of fear


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