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Mar 2024
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Recognizing and Healing Self-Harm in Tee...

MARK GREGSTON
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Self-harm, particularly cutting, has become increasingly prevalent among teens, often serving as a coping mechanism for dealing with anxiety, frustration and depression. It's a sign that teens are struggling with life and desperately seeking an outlet for their emotions. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the underlying reasons and motivations behind self-harming behaviors and provide valuable guidance for parents on how to recognize the signs, engage in open discussion with their teens and seek appropriate professional help. Don’t miss this crucial conversation — tune in now for insights on supporting your teenager's journey toward healing.

For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com

Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org



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