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Mar 2024
17m 59s

STOP playing HARD to get

Mafe Anzures
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On todays episode we destroy the idea the internet has made you believe that in order to find and keep a relationship you have to play hard to get. If you want to attract someone who doesn't play games with your heart, dont be a player yourself

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