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Mar 2024
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When Do I Disclose My Struggles to Someo...

Regeneration Ministries
About this episode

Have you ever felt like your past is a maze that complicates your journey toward love?

We understand that sharing the deepest corners of your heart, marked by trauma and past missteps, can be a treacherous path to tread in the world of dating. 
Today, we address a question from a listener about when and how to unveil your history to someone you’re dating. 

It's a fine line between guarding your heart and being transparent with a potential partner and pacing this disclosure is key to building trust and fostering a healthy relationship. 

We shed light on the wisdom of seeking counsel from a trusted third party, emphasizing that your heart and the heart of your partner are precious gifts that deserve careful handling.  With encouragement and resources from our team at Regeneration, I shared insights into finding solace in support groups, the benefit of confiding in a circle of trusted friends, and the steps to re-enter the dating scene with confidence and support.

It is through this process of connecting and sharing within a community that we find our way back to love, free from the weight of our previous burdens.

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