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Feb 2024
24m 57s

How to Handle Betrayal Trauma

Todd Perelmuter
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Send me a message Unless you live under a rock, you have probably experienced some kind of betrayal trauma. It is the most prevalent kind of trauma known to man and practically universal. Someone at some time in your life has broken your trust, not cared for you the way you deserved, abused or taken advantage of you. It's part of being human. But no matter ... Show More
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