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Mar 2022
39m 25s

Should you pay for your partners kid?

Victoria Devine
About this episode

This week G + V breakdown the intricate and not so simple situation of managing a relationship with a partner who has a child/children. Should you be financially supporting them? Is that your responsibility, or is it theirs? Is it perhaps a joint responsibility? What if you haven't moved in together yet, what happens then?

Join us for a pretty pervy convo on how to have the discussion, but also to learn about some things you should be taking into consideration.

The advice shared on She’s on The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She’s on The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. Victoria Devine is an Authorised Representative of Infocus Securities Australia Proprietary Limited ABN 47 097 797 049 AFSL - AFSL 236523.

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