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Feb 2024
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"Why Am I So Afraid of Failure?" With Dr...

The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast
About this episode

No one is perfect ... Yet so many of us try to be! But God has better for us than the exhausted pace we’ve been running at, and it begins with bowing low in humility. 

Today's episode is part of an ongoing series titled "Ask a Theologian" — conversations with Proverbs 31 Ministries' Director of Theological Research, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Content Manager for Lysa TerKeurst, Shae Hill. In every episode, Joel and Shae will tackle everyday questions with theological insight and practical takeaways.

Related Resources:

  • Download the free assessment titled, "What's It Like To Do Life With Me?" by Lysa TerKeurst here. With Bible teaching and a Q&A you complete alongside a trusted friend, this resource will help you grow in self-awareness and strengthen your relationships. Download here!
  • Living in the peace we want doesn’t come from the absence of pain and chaos but by knowing Jesus is with us in those things. If you’re longing for this kind of soul-settled assurance, preorder Dr. Joel Muddamalle's new book, The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility, and get the first three chapters right away.
  • Tune in every Tuesday to Joel's Instagram for “Theology Talk Tuesday,” where he'll answer your most asked questions about God, the Bible and more. 
  • Sign up on Joel’s website to receive free “bite-sized theology” through a monthly newsletter you can read in five minutes or less.
  • Click here to download a transcript of this episode.

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