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Feb 2024
52m 44s

US 2.0: Living With Our Differences

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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Conflicts are inevitable — both at a global scale and in our personal lives. This week, in the latest in our US 2.0 series, psychologist Peter Coleman explains how minor disagreements turn into major rifts, and how we can defuse even the most salient of disputes in our lives. 
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