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Feb 2024
42m 52s

My biggest dating icks + dealbreakers in...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

Moving into the new year, I've decided that I have new boundaries and standards when it comes to dating, so here's a full episode about it. As always, send me a DM on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead if you enjoyed this episode.


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