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Jan 2024
57m 23s

Going Deep with Julie and John Gottman o...

KELLY CORRIGAN
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Doctors Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman are probably the world’s reigning experts on relationships. They are well into their 5th decade of research that reveals why we treat each other as we do and how a few small but essential adjustments to our everyday patterns could change our relationships for the better. Everything we talked about is applicab ... Show More
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