Doctors Julie Schwartz Gottman and John Gottman are probably the world’s reigning experts on relationships. They are well into their 5th decade of research that reveals why we treat each other as we do and how a few small but essential adjustments to our everyday patterns could change our relationships for the better. Everything we talked about is applicab ... Show More
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Thanks For Being Here - Emma's Essay "Go to the Party, Even When Life Doesn't Feel Like One"
What happens when you show up for someone else's joy while carrying your own grief? A mother steps away from caregiving for 72 hours to witness a bat mitzvah, and discovers that being woven into someone else's celebration—the photo shoots, the prayers, the hours on the dance floo ... Show More
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Nov 21
Go To on AI & the Chaos of Family Life
A scientist and entrepreneur built an AI to intercept every interruption in family life—the basketball emails, the field trip forms, the play rehearsal schedule buried at the bottom of a message. Then, an investor suggested the product could do more: text the sitter automatically ... Show More
30m 21s
Feb 2022
How Not to Ruin Your Relationships | Drs. John & Julie Gottman
<p>If you care about your long term health and happiness, the quality of your relationships is an area you should focus on. And the good news here is that love – as it applies to friends, family, and romantic partners – is not a factory setting, but instead a skill. Drs. John and ... Show More
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Sep 2022
Brené with Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman on The Love Prescription, Part 1 of 3
Think you can’t make relationship changes in a week? Drs. John and Julie Gottman say, yes, actually, you can — and they have 40 years of breakthrough research on marital stability and divorce prediction to prove it. The Gottmans are back, by popular demand, and they’re here to ta ... Show More
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Feb 2024
How Not to Ruin Your Relationships | Drs. John & Julie Gottman
<p><em>New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.</em></p> <p>---</p> <p>What 40 years of research tells us about how to cultivate good relationships in our lives.</p> <p><br /></p> <p>World-renowned for ... Show More
1h 8m
May 2024
How to Keep the Spark Alive: Secrets from 40 Years of Love Research with Drs. Julie and John Gottman
<p>What makes love last decades instead of years? After studying thousands of couples, Drs. Julie and John Gottman discovered what separates the masters from the disasters. </p><br><p>Learn their research-backed secrets, like the 5:1 magic ratio, bids for connection, and the 4 ho ... Show More
1h 4m
Feb 2021
Brené with Drs. John and Julie Gottman on What Makes Love Last
Drs. Julie and John Gottman have taken more than 40 years of breakthrough research and written or co-written more than 40 books on marital stability, divorce prediction, and how science can help people have successful, loving relationships. We talk about the toll the pandemic has ... Show More
1h 24m