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Jan 2024
35 m

How to Date Someone Out of Your League

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic go ... Show More
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