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Jan 2024
35 m

How to Date Someone Out of Your League

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of our league, aspiring for a partner akin to a celebrity or supermodel. But is dating out of our league a realistic goal?

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