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Spilling all the tea on how I became an influencer and almost quit it all! 

Me and my bestie answer your friendship dilemmas, take it from us, we've been besties for 20 years. 

I believe that when you know, YOU KNOW. It's very hard to know when you've met the right person and whether the relationship will be successful. However, there are definitely key qualities you can look out for to help you decide. Once you do commit, it's even harder to navigate b ... Show More

<p>On today’s AMA I let a caller know how to be friends with someone that has taken a cheater back, and how as a friend you need to let it run its course.  We also get into a situation-ship that a listener was overthinking, when things are going well you need to sometimes rip the ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in a bad situation and I need your advice. A few months ago, I was in a great relationship and my man and I were happy. I had a male neighbor that I only talked to on social media. My man found out about us sending each other messages and he accused me ... Show More

<p>Sometimes you already know the answer, but just need to hear it from a friend.  That’s where I come in.  We had a lot of good calls on today’s AMA.  Like one from a girl who’s been stuck in a situationship for the past year.  This guy would send her heartfelt messages…like wan ... Show More

<p>Ok, let’s do this.&nbsp;Let’s answer this age-old, much-debated question once and for all right now.&nbsp;But, brace yourself: you may be surprised by what I have to say.&nbsp;The truth is, I don’t think we’re asking ourselves the right question in the first place.&nbsp;</p><b ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some real advice here. I've been married for a year and my wife recently started a new job... Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Welcome to my friendship soap box: friendship breakups, makeups, my vendetta against friend groups and how TF to have friends in your 20s. These are the ins and outs of friendships from someone who has failed and succeeded many times in the friend department, and is still here (w ... Show More

Hey honeys! The weekly debate this week is "can friends with benefits ever be successful?". This was such an interesting one and I feel like it totally can be, but can very easily result in feelings being developed!! As for dilemmas, we discussed how to deal with not knowing wher ... Show More