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Jan 2024
16m 15s

10 Mind Games Narcissists Play

Lisa A. Romano
About this episode

Join Lisa A. Romano as she unravels the enigmatic world of "Mind Games Narcissists Play," offering invaluable insights from the perspective of a compassionate life coach.

In this illuminating discussion, Lisa delves deep into the complexities of narcissistic behavior, unveiling a truth that lies beneath the surface: "Narcissists are angry below the surface." 🌊 Drawing from her extensive expertise as a life coach, she navigates through the intricate landscape of the mind games played by narcissists, shedding light on the various tactics they employ.

 

This isn't just a podcast episode – it's a guided journey led by a life coach who understands the underlying anger and complexities of narcissistic behavior. Lisa provides actionable insights to help you identify these mind games, fostering resilience and a deeper understanding of self and others.

 

Visit Lisa's website here to take her codependency quiz and to join her free newsletter: https://www.lisaaromano.com Codependency in relationships destroys love. When you are codependent, you seek approval and love others, hoping to be loved in return.

On the surface, this sounds appropriate. However, when we dig in deeper, we learn that relationship dynamics that are rooted in insecure attachment and abandonment issues are anything but easy.

Signs you're codependent include seeking approval, enabling unhealthy behaviors, denying your own needs, putting the needs of others before your own, having poor boundaries, having difficulty with mature communication, lying for a partner, feeling over-responsible for other people's emotions, rescuing or fixing other people's lives, and then feeling angry when others don't do as you would expect them to.

For more help on breaking free of codependency, insecure attachment, or narcissistic relationships, reach out at: coach@lisaaromano.com

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