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Dec 2023
1h 56m

E684 Ask Nick - Bl*wjobs and Santa

Nick Viall
About this episode

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we read an email from a listener who’s wondering if she should confront the guy she’s dating over following a ton of naked girls. 

Then, we get to our callers. 

Our first caller’s landlord is cheating on her girlfriend, and our caller is wondering if she should tell her. For context, the landlord’s previous relationship broke up due to infidelity as well… but is it our caller’s place to step in? Our second caller hasn't found love nor dated anyone since coming out. He’s not into the hookup experiences of gay culture, and last dated a woman. Our final caller is looking for advice on how to return her ex’s things. This was a year long situationship, that ended when she saw him with another girl at the bar. She’s afraid he’ll beg for her back.

“Sometimes breakups have to be black or white.” 

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