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Dec 2023
17m 52s

Why They Stop Trying In The Relationship

Teal Swan
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In this episode, Teal Swan reveals the deepest, most unconscious, and most difficult to recognize relationship apathy pattern. She explains why some people only feel valued for what they do, not for who they are, and how this leads to apathy in relationships.

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