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Dec 2023
35m 47s

I Wish I Knew What I Know Now

Sven Erlandson
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Bert has lost the love of his life. He had a cheatin' heart, but is that actually cheating? What is your own definition of cheating? Sven delves into these questions in his counseling session with Bert, whose girlfriend discovered his intimate, but not physical contact with another woman. He now realizes he invalidated his partner's feelings and so, destroye ... Show More
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