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Dec 2023
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Vida & The Psychologically Abusive Narci...

Abuse Survivor Network
About this episode

In this episode, Vita explores her journey to recovery from narcissistic abuse, the haunting experiences of intergenerational trauma, coercive control, and the legal battles she fought with her abuser.

Vita's gripping narrative will draw you in as she describes the crushing guilt she carried and how she suppressed her needs while trapped in an abusive environment. Vita's story is not just about survival, but also about hope. Learn from her as she shares insights on the importance of setting boundaries, self-care, and finding inner happiness. Explore with us the toxic patterns of post-separation abuse, the tribulations of high-conflict divorce, and how to break free from them.

*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, suicidal ideation, sexual abuse, and sexual coercion. ***

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