Welcome to the first episode of Made It Out! We're going back to the beginning and looking at childhood and sexuality. Join Mal and Iris Walker as they dive into the heteronormative expectations put on us as children, the shame we are taught to feel about our sexuality growing up, and how it all impacts our ability to explore. Iris shares her struggles with ... Show More
Nov 18
Losing a Friend to Cancer with Tig Notaro
Actor, comedian, writer, and co-host of The Handsome Podcast, Tig Notaro joins Mal this week to talk about the devastating loss of her friend Andrea Gibson, facing her own cancer battle, the grief of losing her mom, at the same time as navigating a breakup. She also offers a glim ... Show More
39m 43s
Aug 2023
34. Not for UFOs + The 10 Steps of Making Up with Your Mom
<p>As usual, a compliment turns into a larger conversation about coveting hotness and beauty standards, as Jess and Caroline agree that the only thing they (or any of us) really care about is sex and attraction. But is beauty work a lie, or is it simply a way to masquerade in an ... Show More
1h 8m
Feb 2023
Recovering from Purity Culture and Sexual Repression
<p>This week we are talking about growing up in purity culture and how that has affected us to this day. We talk in-depth about guilt and shame associated with sex in this environment, the struggle to find yourself sexually, how lonely it can feel, and more!</p>
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41m 11s
Jul 2023
33. WHATADO: Spicing Up Your Relationship, Being the Single Friend, and Texting the Ex HBD
<p>WHATADOS are back, and though Jess and Caroline are physically falling apart and can't agree about hair removal strategies, their non-advice to the kooks is ready to rage. </p>
<p>First up, keeping the fire alive in a long-term relationship - including asking for what you ... Show More
1 h
May 2023
Taboo Terrain: Navigating Spirituality, Religion, and Politics
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Welcome to the XTRA Gay podcast! In this episode, we're tackling taboo topics that are often overlooked in the LGBTQ+ community. Join us as we explore issues related to spirituality, religion, and politics through a queer lens. We'll be chatting with guests who bring ... Show More
53m 44s
Dec 2023
Ep 184 - Exploring Your Sexuality
<p>Honestly, this is an episode I wish I had in my early 20’s. I wish someone had talked to be about connecting to my sexuality, because I was more into the performance of sex. I want you to know how good you can feel and what it feels like to be sexy. So, I’m encouraging you t ... Show More
24m 5s
Aug 2023
evolving from GIRLHOOD to WOMANHOOD | growing up, embracing change, becoming a woman, & feminine energy
in this weeks episode, we're getting really vulnerable! this has been a topic that's really been on my mind recently as that is transitioning from GIRLHOOD to WOMANHOOD. this means embracing change, feeling comfortable with the idea of growing up, and not only that, but being EXC ... Show More
34m 10s
Apr 2023
20. WHATADO: Vanity, Trust Issues, and Spreading 'Em
<p>This week Caroline and Jess are recording TOGETHER IN THE FLESH, and you'll hear our excitement right away. Yes, we know the sound quality suffered our first time with an in-person setup, but that's why 1) we're constantly saying we're not professionals and 2) ... Show More
1h 2m