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Dec 2023
1h 11m

The Rite of Passage That'll Create Your ...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

  • How to find your own version of consciousness

  • The art of creating a life based on your own truths

  • The importance of feeling your own pain to overcome escapism

  • Stefanos’ rock bottom moment and finding the core of his shame

  • Exploring the depths of masculine and feminine polarity

About Stefanos Sifandos

With over 20 years of direct experience in the personal transformation space, Stefanos understands peak human potential. 

He is a trained educator and somatic, trauma-informed relationship expert with a background in behavioral science and philosophy. Stefanos is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential and to each other with a philosophy that merges the best of Eastern and Western methodologies to promote spiritual balance and empower people in life and love. 

From trauma release to navigating the, at times, murky waters of modern masculinity to helping women understand the men in their lives. He helps people escape negative and limiting past patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self. 

Stefanos has also cofounded a world-class coaching and education institute, a wellness community leveraging emerging technology and unifying ancient wisdom and intelligence with Web3 innovations and the global men’s empowerment movement.

Stefanos has also been involved in multiple 8 and 9-figure startups and worked with thousands of men and women from all walks of life; special forces soldiers, professional sporting clubs, Olympic gold medalists, elite fighters, and everyday people relying on him to restructure and reframe their relationships with themselves and their loved ones.

Timestamps

00:00:00 - Episode Intro clips

00:00:34 - This Tantric Life 

00:01:11 - Introduction to Stefanos Sifandos

00:02:56 - Partnership with Christine Hasler

00:05:54 - Connect with Layla: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/

00:07:11 - How Stefanos found his own version of consciousness & divine masculine

00:18:29 - Until you have felt your pain, life is this pattern of avoidance or escapism

00:22:14 - Rock bottom and finding the core of his shame

00:25:37 - Have you met yourself? Can you be with your own pain?

00:37:22 - If you are really into life, you may have experiences that may reactivate aspects of self that are really uncomfortable

00:40:51 - Let’s have some MOOD Sex Magic supplement powder. https://shopmood.com/shop-all/mood-sex-magic-sexy-plant-activated-elixir/

00:48:41 - Going deep into masculine feminine dynamics and polarity

00:53:08 - Edging into the window of tolerance- edging into your pain or into your shadows or into your trauma

00:57:44 - Change your destiny because you change your nervous system, overturn the imprints no matter what they are and start creating a life based on your soul's truth

00:58:14 - VITA™ Coaching Certification: https://laylamartin.com/vitacoaching/

01:03:14 - what are the top three guiding principles you give them to have the healthiest, most vibrant relationship? 

01:08:17 - Embodied Practice with Layla Martin - how to meet somatic pain from the consciousness of love 

01:12:29 - Conclusion - Thank you for listening 

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