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Nov 2023
1h 4m

How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.

Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane. 


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 00:38 Welcome Kelsey!
  • 01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?
  • 03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
  • 04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something
  • 05:03 How did you meet your husband?
  • 09:29 Taking notes of what people love
  • 09:01 What people don’t know about Cody
  • 10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?
  • 12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?
  • 14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?
  • 15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?
  • 17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online
  • 21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?
  • 23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?
  • 25:04 Sharing Cody with the world
  • 30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life
  • 34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock
  • 38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?
  • 42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?
  • 46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant
  • 53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name
  • 57:09 Where to find Kelsey 


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