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Nov 2023
10m 27s

No one cares that you have a girlfriend

JAMES BARR AND DAN HUDSON
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Why do people feel the need to announce that they're in a relationship? Is it arrogant? James has had it with people telling him they have a boyfriend. Dan thinks it's pretty normal. Let us know your thoughts 😂 find us on your socials by searching gaynongay. Kisses x Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices 
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