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Nov 2023
25m 57s

Reciprocal Curiosity

PATRICK KING
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00:08:57 How to Build Curiosity

00:13:49 Assume Nothing

00:16:40 Person, Not Story

00:19:15 You Go First

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• Maintain reciprocal curiosity and the mindset that you can always learn something new from others. Be fully present, open-minded, and receptive rather than approaching with bias, judgment, or distraction. Instead of trying to convince others how fascinating you are, find what is fascinating about others. Conversations are co-creations!


• Genuinely connect to others by listening deeply, focusing on the person and not their story, and never making judgments or assumptions. Listen to understand, not to respond; listen primarily for emotion, not just fact. One way you can show that you’re willing to really listen to people is self-disclosure.


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