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Nov 2023
33m 25s

Standing proud in your own worth when ot...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Unfortunately, there are people in the world who will never see your worth. They may, in fact, be incapable of seeing anything past their own judgments. That can be tough to deal with sometimes, especially if these people are supposed to be close. 
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