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May 2021
49m 43s

Did You Pick the Right Partner?

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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Whether you've been dating someone for a short time or been married for years, there's one question that can remain perennially interesting — did I choose the right partner? My guest today has some answers to that question that aren't based on crowd-sourced anecdotes or biased personal hunches, but reams of scientific research. His name is Ty Tashiro and he ... Show More
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