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Aug 2023
39m 10s

The #1 Way to Find the “Perfect Man”

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

Dr. Lewandowski and I dissect the often-overlooked aspect of dating that might be holding you back from discovering genuine, lasting love. We'll introduce you to two real-life clients, Nancy and Sydney, and their experiences in the world of modern dating. Nancy is dating lots of men, while Sydney can't find any guys. While most would think they have two completely separate issues, they both have the same problem.

We'll guide you through two essential strategic components: Mindset and Actionable steps. Join us as we explore the concept of Self-Concept Clarity, dismantle the barriers that might be holding you back, and unveil the truth that your journey toward true love needs to begin within.

NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session



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