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Nov 2023
49m 21s

Healing 2.0: What We Gain from Pain

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
We’ve all heard the saying, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But is there any truth to this idea? This week, we explore the concept of post-traumatic growth with psychologist Eranda Jayawickreme. He finds that pain can have benefits — but not necessarily the ones we expect. 
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